A family law attorney cannot represent both spouses in a divorce in Illinois. This is because representing both parties would create a conflict of interest, which is strictly prohibited under legal ethics rules. Divorce involves dividing property, determining spousal support, and addressing sensitive matters like child custody. These decisions often bring the parties’ interests into conflict, so attorneys are ethically obligated to provide undivided loyalty to their client.
Now, while an attorney cannot represent both sides, there are alternative approaches for couples seeking a smoother divorce process. Below, Reifman Law Offices discusses the reasons behind this limitation, explains potential challenges and highlights some solutions for couples aiming for an amicable resolution.
The primary reason an attorney cannot represent both parties in a divorce is the potential for conflicting interests. Consider this example: one spouse may want a larger share of marital assets, while the other might argue for equal division. An attorney working for both sides would be unable to advocate for one client without potentially harming the other.
Illinois follows the Rules of Professional Conduct, a legal framework ensuring that attorneys maintain loyalty, confidentiality, and fairness. When representing both parties, even the appearance of bias or favoritism could undermine this trust
It’s not unusual for divorcing couples to hope for a single attorney to guide them through an amicable process. While this is impossible, there are approaches that can still achieve simplicity and mutual agreement. Understanding how conflicts like this are managed can make the process feel less overwhelming:
Each spouse hires their own attorney. While this may seem adversarial, it doesn’t have to be. Both lawyers can facilitate negotiations to ensure fair terms are reached without unnecessary tension.
A mediator is a neutral third party who helps couples reach agreements on key issues. They don’t provide legal advice but guide discussions to resolve disputes cooperatively.
This process involves both spouses and their respective attorneys committing to work together without involving a court. The collaborative approach fosters transparency and minimizes conflict.
If couples agree fully on all issues—from property division to child custody—they can proceed with an uncontested divorce. One party may hire an attorney to draft necessary documents, but this attorney cannot provide advice to the other spouse.
For couples who agree on dividing assets and co-parenting, the following options may streamline the process:
Drafting a list of agreed-upon terms before meeting separate attorneys or mediators can save time and expense.
While this attorney won’t represent both parties, they can handle the drafting and filing of legal paperwork to ensure the process progresses smoothly.
Both spouses should understand their rights and obligations from the start, avoiding future misunderstandings.
Navigating a divorce can feel complicated, but you don’t have to go through it alone. At Reifman Law Offices, we provide personalized and compassionate legal guidance. Whether you’re seeking an amicable resolution or need help with a high-conflict divorce, we’re here to support you every step of the way. Reach out today to explore your options and take the next step toward a better future.
We assist individuals and families in Cook, Lake, and DuPage counties in Illinois.
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